Learn to Draw Lily Love Braids Step by Step
Understanding the Lily Love Braid: History and Basics The Lily Love Braid is a decorative hair-braiding technique that combines elements of traditional three...
Understanding the Lily Love Braid: History and Basics
The Lily Love Braid is a decorative hair-braiding technique that combines elements of traditional three-strand braiding with woven sections that create a delicate, flower-like appearance. The name references the lily flower due to the braided pattern's resemblance to layered lily petals. This braiding style has roots in Victorian-era hairstyling, though modern interpretations have evolved significantly since the 1800s.
The Lily Love Braid differs from standard braids because it incorporates both tight and loose sections strategically placed throughout the design. Rather than maintaining consistent tension across the entire braid, this technique uses looser weaving in certain areas to create a romantic, dimensional look. The style became particularly popular in contemporary hair fashion around 2015-2020, as social media platforms showcased various interpretations of the design.
Understanding the foundational structure matters before attempting the actual braiding. The Lily Love Braid typically begins with a standard three-strand base but incorporates additional hair strands that are woven in and out at specific intervals. This creates pockets or "petals" in the braid that give it visual depth and texture. The technique requires understanding how hair tension affects the final appearance and how different hair types may produce slightly different results.
Key characteristics of an authentic Lily Love Braid include: a visible three-dimensional structure, sections where individual strands are deliberately exposed to create pattern interest, and a romantic, somewhat loose aesthetic compared to tight, formal braids. The braid works on various hair lengths, though longer hair typically displays the style's full complexity more clearly.
Practical Takeaway: Before beginning, examine reference photos of Lily Love Braids from multiple angles to understand how the braid should look when viewed from the front, side, and back. This visual familiarity will guide your technique as you practice.
Preparing Your Hair and Gathering Necessary Materials
Proper preparation significantly impacts your success with the Lily Love Braid. Begin by washing your hair 1-2 days before braiding, as freshly washed hair can be too slippery and difficult to control. Hair that has some natural oils provides better grip and holds the braid structure more effectively throughout the day. If your hair is naturally very straight, consider applying a light texturizing spray or sea salt spray to create friction between strands.
Detangling is essential before any braiding attempt. Use a wide-tooth comb to work through any knots, starting at the ends and working toward the roots. For longer hair, you may need 5-10 minutes to fully detangle. This step prevents the braid from pulling and tearing hair during the braiding process. If you have curly or textured hair, you might apply a leave-in conditioner or detangling spray to ease this process.
You'll need minimal supplies for the Lily Love Braid: a fine-tooth comb or styling brush, small elastic hair ties (typically 2-3 per braid), bobby pins or hair clips if securing the braid at the scalp, and optionally a light hairspray for hold. Many people find that elastics in colors matching their hair blend more seamlessly into the finished design. If you plan to add decorative elements like flowers or ribbons, have these materials prepared beforehand.
Sectioning your hair before braiding helps organize the process. Depending on your desired braid location—whether you want a single braid, multiple braids, or a braid incorporated into an updo—plan your sections accordingly. For a single Lily Love Braid on one side, you might work with hair from ear to ear across the back of your head. For two braids, you'd divide the back section into left and right halves.
Practical Takeaway: Spend extra time on detangling, as tangles are the primary cause of failed braiding attempts. Work in a well-lit area where you can see individual strands clearly, as this improves your control and precision throughout the process.
The Three-Strand Foundation: Starting Your Braid
The Lily Love Braid begins with a standard three-strand braid foundation, so mastering this base is crucial. Divide your selected hair section into three roughly equal parts. Hold the right strand in your right hand, the center strand between your left and right hand, and the left strand in your left hand. This hand position allows you to move strands across each other with smooth, controlled movements.
Begin by crossing the right strand over the center strand, making the right strand the new center. Then cross the left strand over the new center strand. This alternating pattern—right over center, left over center—creates the basic three-strand braid structure. Most people find it helpful to count as they braid: "right-center, left-center, right-center" and so on. This rhythm helps maintain consistent tension and prevents mistakes.
Tension control is critical at this stage. Your braid shouldn't be so tight that it pulls on the scalp or stresses the hair, but it shouldn't be so loose that it falls apart. For the Lily Love Braid specifically, you want this foundation section to be moderately tight—tighter than you'd make a casual beach braid, but not as tight as a formal French braid. Think of a "medium-firm" grip on each strand.
Continue this three-strand pattern for approximately 2-3 inches down the head, or until you've created a foundation that feels solid and well-established. This foundation section should look like a traditional three-strand braid with clear, defined rope-like appearance. At this point, your hands should feel comfortable with the braiding motion, and you should be maintaining even tension across all three strands.
Practical Takeaway: Practice the basic three-strand braid on its own several times before attempting the Lily Love variations. Many people find that practicing with rope or cord helps them develop hand muscle memory before working with the unpredictability of actual hair.
Creating the Lily Petals: Loosening and Weaving Techniques
Once your three-strand foundation is established, you'll transform it into the distinctive Lily Love Braid by strategically loosening sections and adding woven elements. This is where the braid's characteristic flower-like appearance emerges. The key technique involves gently pulling on specific areas of the braid to expand and expose the woven pattern beneath.
After completing your foundation section, look at the braid from the front and identify the outer edge strands—the strands on the left and right sides of the braid. Beginning with one side, gently grasp a small section of the outer strand and carefully pull it outward, away from the center of the braid. This pulling action creates a slight looseness and causes the braid to expand. Repeat this process on the opposite side, maintaining symmetry.
The pulling technique requires gentleness and precision. Too much pulling causes the braid to lose its structure entirely, while too little creates no visible effect. Each pull should be a gradual, controlled motion rather than a quick tug. As you pull, you'll notice the braid developing a softer, more dimensional appearance with visible petal-like sections. Some braiders use their fingers, while others find that using a small comb's handle helps control which strands they're manipulating.
Continue adding new strands to your braid as you work downward. As you progress past your foundation section, incorporate additional hair by picking up small sections from the sides and adding them into the braiding pattern. This creates the woven, interconnected look characteristic of Lily Love Braids. The newly added strands should be incorporated smoothly, and the pulling technique continues throughout to maintain the petal effect.
Practical Takeaway: Practice the pulling technique on a completed practice braid before attempting it on an actual style. You need to find the right balance of tension—enough to create visible petals without completely dismantling your braiding work. Video references can show you the exact pulling motions used by experienced braiders.
Advanced Techniques: Multiple Braids and Variations
Once you've mastered the single Lily Love Braid, you can explore variations that incorporate multiple braids or combine this technique with other hairstyling elements. The most common advanced version involves creating two Lily Love Braids that work together to frame the face or create a more elaborate updо design. Two braids require
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